Qualification

So, again i felt a little sad.

My friend fon me n said she think she cant hold it anymore, the guy simply too stupid to believe he is the guy she love, and she cried in the fon.

It is kinda hard for me to even give her a response, but i guess she only need a listener, so i did wat i could -- listen to her quietly.

Again, let me talk bout guy n girl thinking of love.

Some girls, all they wanted of love is simply a guy that actually love her hard, hold her tight and give her warm in arm.

But, some guy just dun take it so simply.

They always believe that there is a qualification-needed in order for him to make the girl he love happy. They always believe that what the girl want is never him, because - his having low qualification, he is not tall enough, he is not handsome, he is not having a car, he is not rich enough...

But, while he kept struggling to reach the qualification he think he lack of, the girl will wait for him alone.

It is absurd if two hearts are together, and you still need to pay effort alone.

Recently read a novel, the guy describe the girl as a whale, and describe himself as pond. He believe that the girl thought he could give her good life, but actually he could not provide her many resources that the sea could give him. Therefore, he left the girl and kept trying hard to b the sea that always wanted to be. The girl told him at last 'You need not do so hard to be my sea, u just need to ensure i'm happy everday and u r my best sea.'

Isn't protecting her and ensure she is happy everyday the best qualification to love someone?