Marriage and Liars

This post would start with a scenario given:
A gal is angry over her bf, she scolded him 'how could u be so flirt to other gal when u already have me?'
the guy say 'y r u angry, dun u trust me?'
the gal replied 'o, come'on, u r jz my bf, u could break up wid me anytime!'
the guy silently took something out of her pocket and showed the gal
it was a ring!
Guy: i would not love nobody but u, would u be my soul partner till we died?
the gal touched and cry.

If u ask me is this a love scenario, it would be joke scene if i tell u that the guy name is John Terry, Ashley Cole, or Tiger Woods, or even recently Jack Neo. This post of mine is to inform gal, marriage did not mean a lot, it simply use as a tool to comfort u @ boost ur confidence towards him. But of coz, in today world, it could also be used another way round, the gal could still invite another guy to enter her room when her husband is bz working in office.

Well, dun get me wrong, i'm not a anti romantic person, but i m more a factual based person. It surely took the courage of life for a responsible man to tell his love one that he wish to marry her. But it surely took nothing for a irresponsible man to get into marriage. So, at the end, it all back to the term: responsible. He might not think of lie at first, but due to lack of responsibility, he find no reason to suffer himself to bound wid the promise that he made. In my previous post, i had mentioned that irresponsible is the major concern of our current society, and this is obviously one of the example.

In past, one may get married without register, but u could not do it today. The main reason is probably due to many of the man marry a few times without the consent of other wife. I would advice the man do not felt envy that last time there use to be poligamy marriage, because it is only nice when u r young. Imagine when u r a little older, when u get home after a tired working, and all of ur five wives is posting on the bed n yelling at u. u might have wish that u die now.

One of the bad argument is this: Sex is not love, then having sex with other woman other than wife is not betray to marriage. This is funny. Sex is not love, but having sex with other could show u did not love ur wife.

Man, Be responsible if u really had decided to be a husband; Woman, Be careful when u r finding husband.